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Ralph Greg Gregory Stacey

September 11, 1947 - January 2, 2021


Ralph Gregory Stacey (Greg) September 11, 1947- January 2, 2021

The family of Greg Stacey is deeply saddened by his quiet and unexpected passing.


Greg was born in Vancouver to Ralph and Margaret Stacey: from his adventurous father, he acquired kindness, a love of the sea and penchant for good stories, and from his mother he inherited a love of art, music and gardening.  Greg arrived in Nelson in 1981 to become Chief Crown Counsel with his wife Margaret and small children. The family built a house on the beach at Willow Point, and enjoyed the North Shore community for 23 years, before becoming Nelson residents for the last fifteen years.


His family has been touched by the wide response to his death.  It is no surprise that Greg’s personal reach was formidable, from the management of the Nelson Rotary Club youth exchange for nineteen years, chairmanship of the Nelson United Church Board and Kootenay Lake Hospital Board, service on the boards of the Nelson and District Credit Union, Simon Fraser University, the Legal Services Society, Kootenay representative to the Canadian Bar Association, and a director with Health Labour Relations as well as supervising lawyer for the Nelson Advocacy Centre.   As a lawyer in Kamloops, Cranbrook and Nelson for 42 years, he worked for the Legal Services Society and Crown Counsel BC, and then launched a Nelson family practice in 1984 until retirement in 2017.  These historical facts do not show the mentorship, generosity and ethical behaviour that Greg practiced and championed throughout his career. As many people have put it, he was a gentlemanly lawyer.


The lawyer in Greg was only a part of who he was; he was fatherly to so many young people, welcoming and mentoring youth from all over the world, the country and the community, many of whom he retained in friendship.  Greg was an artist, a writer, an art collector, a chef, a musicologist, a movie and theatre lover, a lifelong student of history, philosophy, law and literature well after achieving degrees from Carleton, Simon Fraser and UBC, and he was arguably the biggest patron of the Nelson library.  He loved boats (preferably with sails), gardening, landscaping, and constructing rock walls. In recent years, Greg wanted to travel and explore the major cities of Europe, which he did, from Glasgow to Jerusalem, and many places in between.  This past year he enjoyed the company of some like-minded local gentlemen philosophers who have gathered virtually.


The most important thing in Greg’s life was his large and lively family, of whom he was very proud.  He is deeply missed by Margaret and their children:  Eleanor (Thomas Buffonge), Anne (Steve Meszaros), Robert (Angela Meilleur), Elizabeth (Nathan Affolter).  Greg took great joy in his grandchildren:  Christina, Edward, Alex, Theo, Charlotte, Violet and newest little girl Phoebe.  He also loved his weekly gatherings onscreen with sister Sharlene, and brothers Frank and Roy and their families.


The family thanks Drs. Malpass and Mieske and the first responders of Nelson for their kindness and attention.


A celebration of Greg’s life will be held at Nelson United Church when the world opens up again.


A wish of Greg’s was a scholarship legacy for a promising student, with mentorship or apprenticeship attached.  The family will draft the vehicle for the Greg Stacey Legacy in the coming year.


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Thompson Funeral Service Staff send our condolences to family and friends.

From: Lynda iwanik
Relation: Friend of family.

Condolences to Margaret and family. Greg was a compassionate person and lawyer. He will be deeply missed. Take care.

From: Esther Lorusso-Campese
Relation: Through His Bussinces & Wife

My thoughts & condolences are with You Margaret and children’s & Grandchildren’s & Family’s. Mr. Greg Ralph Stacy was kind man. I was shocked to hear of his passing, rest in peace. Your greetings will be missed. Thinking of You Margaret & Family. Hugs & healing positive prayers.

From: Sonya Martineau
Relation: On a professional level, through work in the legal community

My condolences to to Greg’s family. I will always remember him as a regular staple on Baker Street, deeply engrossed in a book, but often taking the time to glance up and gesture a nod in hello. I was lucky to have the opportunity to interact with him on a professional level and always appreciated his words of wisdom and ability to assist in mediation. His dedication to his community and his profession will leave a lasting mark in the community.

From: Diane Watts
Relation: Friends

To Margaret and family – we were saddened to hear of Greg’s passing – Norm has enjoyed getting to know Greg through the Monday coffee group. We send to you and all the family our sincere condolences. Diane and Norm Watts

From: Isa MacDonald

Dear Margaret and family,
Greg lived well, and he left well.
Our hearts go out to you.
Much love from the MacDonald family.
Doug, Isa, Jupiter, Anja and Tessa

From: Berdine Jonker
Relation: Family friend.

My condolences to the Stacey family. Greg will leave such a huge space behind, both in his family and in the community. My memories of Greg since childhood will definitely include his special sense of humour.

From: Sandi and Brooke Leatherman

To Margaret and family…Brooke and I were saddened to hear of Greg’s passing. He has left quite a legacy in our community. Though only acquaintances, our impression was of a man who moved through life generously, ethically and passionately, and will be missed by so many. Warmly, Sandi and Brooke Leatherman

From: Richard and Faye Spilker
Relation: Colleague

Greg had earned the respect of both the bench and the bar. Our condolences to his family.

From: Robert McDiarmid, Q.C.
Relation: Through law; we also both went to Burnaby Central.

I was saddened to read of Greg’s passing. He was dedicated to making the justice system truly just. I would always try to connect with him whenever I was in the Nelson area; I enjoyed his company.

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A wish of Greg’s was a scholarship legacy for a promising student, with mentorship or apprenticeship attached.  The family will draft the vehicle for the Greg Stacey Legacy in the coming year.

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